Wednesday, July 12, 2006

MOMMY

Dear My beloved readers, this is a wonderful story tell you a bit more detail of reason "Why we have our lives in this WORLD" and will also guide you to know how much important mean of{MOM}. The Angle who gives you birth...... Please keep this thought in your heart and will thanks for MOM, if childs brings her of sadness.........she will be living deeply deep in a whole life.

However, our buddha teach his people that "Eventhoug, can't giving a hug golden or diaman, please don't bring sadness to your paren. Because end of your life you'll receiving those done from your children back". So please just make you parent be living in happiness and peaceful. And then u'll happy and properous as well". Thanks for ur time read thru my blog sometime... and wishing you, and all MOMs in our world please be happy and good luck forever!!!Best

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Once upon of time there’s a baby ready to born in our world. Suddenly the child asked GOD “They tell me you’re going to send me to the earth tomorrow but how am I going to live there being so small and helpless?” God replied “Among the many angles, I choose once for you, she will be waiting for you and take care of you”. But said the child “Please tell me in HAVEAN I don’t do anything else but just sing and smile, that what I need to be happy” Then God add “Your angle will sing for you everyday, and you’ll feel angle’s love and be happy” And said the child “How am I going to be able to understand when people talk to me, if I don’t know their language that men talk?”

That’s so easy, God said “Your angle will tell you the most beautiful and sweet words. As you will never hear, and with much patience and care.......then you angle will teach you how to speak” The child looked up the GOD saying “And what am I going to do when I want to talk to you?” God smiles at the child then replied “No worry my dear!!! Your angle will place you hands together and teach you how to pray”. Then the child still said “I’ve ever heard on earth there’re a lot of bad MEN, who will protect me then?”

And then, God put his arm around the child and saying “Your angle will defend you even if it means risking of life” The child looked god saying then asking him another question “But will more be sad because I will no see you anymore” God hugged the child then said “Your angle will always tell you about ME!!! And will teach you the way will come back to me, even though, I’ll always be next to you”


At the moment there was much peace in HAVEAN but voices from earth could be already be heard.... Then the child in hurry, asked softly “Oh GOD.........If I am above to leave now please tell me my angle’s NAME”. Suddenly god replied “Your angle’s name is not important..........But you’ll simply call her MOMMY........MOMMY, please remind this word in your mind ok?” After hearing those, our child going from the HAVEAN in to the Earth and born as a cute child with his MOM.........since that time till today!!!


*** Thus, my dearest friends.........if you love your mom then send it to all your friends as you can......

Sunday, July 02, 2006

~*~ Decision ~*~

Our perception of the traits and characteristics that make us who we are is often tightly intertwined with how we live our life. We define ourselves in terms of the roles we adopt, our actions and inactions, our triumphs, and what we think are failures. As a result it is easy to identify so strongly with a decision that has resulted in unexpected negative consequences that we actually become that "wrong" decision.

The disappointment and shame we feel when we make what we perceive as a mistake grows until it becomes a dominant part of our identities. We rationalize our "poor" decisions by labeling ourselves incompetent decision-makers.

However, your true identity cannot be defined by your choices. Your essence-what makes you a unique entity-exists independently of your decision-making process.There are no true right or wrong decisions. All decisions contribute to your development and are an integral part of your evolving existence yet they are still separate from the self. A decision that does not result in its intended outcome is in no way an illustration of character. Still, it can have dire effects on our ability to trust ourselves and our self-esteem.

You can avoid becoming your decisions by affirming that a "bad decision" was just an experience, and next time you can choose differently. Try to avoid lingering in the past and mulling over the circumstances that led to your perceived error in judgment. Instead, adapt to the new circumstances you must face by considering how you can use your intelligence, inner strength, and intuition to aid you in moving forward more mindfully. Try not to entirely avoid thinking about the choices you have made, but reflect on the consequences of your decision from a rational rather than an emotional standpoint.


Strive to under! stand why you made the choice you did, forgive yourself, and then move forward.A perceived mistake becomes a valuable learning experience and is, in essence, a gift to learn and grow from. You are not a bad person and you are not your decisions; you are just a simply human.

** I would like to offer this good article to one of my classmate who's just talk with me over the phone almost an hour to expressing and consult about his bad mooth and stress that he facing in his life NOW!!! I tryiing to explain with some good adviced hope make him understand what I said. I would added that "You're still young..........so anything is not too late for you yet, or even other life who living in the pretty world. And I am also welcome receive any call or email or by other way as you can. Be please to consutant to you of all any feeling {even happy & sadness" just reminder I am once you friend ok?". Other wise, I would like to remind him that plz don't trying to think anything in bad way......... just open his heart a bit BIGER then he will see how our world look like?. Hopefully, everything will better and better soon in your mind. To be accepted that tomorrow will changes.

Thanks & Have a nice day everyone.....!


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